Indian” GOLD”EN marriages

Just as dowry is a social evil display of GOLD in large quantities in marriages is a terrible social evil .The bride of today has to carry kilos of gold to prove her value. What a tragedy? Rich people who can afford to indulge in the vulgar luxury on the occasion of the marriages of their siblings set a very bad example to all their poor cousins. It has turned out that a large number of families save throughout their lives to accumulate gold and money to marry off their daughters.In this sense the girls have started feeling that they are a liability to their parents. 

In Kerala ...  

THE TWO BUSINESSES that thrive wherever they are started( in villages , small towns or big cities) are Jewelers and Textiles. Advertisements of branded gold and jewelry are really influencing the rich and  the poor alike . These ads are endorsed by very popular film personalities and they influence the people.Even invitation cards are very luxurious there are cards the price of which ranges from 100 to 10000 rupee .there are event management companies to provide all things for the marriage and they can easily tempt people by various things.

However marriages are done here and divorces are also done here and both seem to be the two sides of the same coin with thin space in between. Love and hatred also are the two sides of the same coin . Suicides and murders in this connection are many.

In a cricket match or in any games it is tossed once at the start but in marriage it is tossed up almost every moment 

.Head or Tail ..and the sustenance of a relationship has become a gamble .. it has become anybody’s guess..There is gold in marriages but there is no GOLD standards in relationships

The divorces that happen among celebrities also being celebrated by the media and they also become role models for ordinary mortals.

Respect the institution of marriage and strengthen the relationships by spending less on it ..